By now nearly everyone should know some of the great sexual pleasure you can experience by wearing butt plugs. But for many of us, this will be something that we only do in the privacy of our own bedrooms.
Why keep the fun locked up behind closed doors though? There’s tons of fun things (and some not so fun things) that can be made much more interesting simply by doing them while plugged!
In this article, we’re going to explore some of these activities, and explore the do’s and don’ts of taking your butt plugs into the great outdoors.
Why You Should Take Your Butt Plug Outside
Of course, the first thing that will cross someone’s mind if they aren’t familiar with this kind of activity is why they should bother.
To put it bluntly, there are a whole host of reasons different people like to use their plugs in different ways. From exhibitionism, to being told to by the dominant partner in a BDSM relationship, to trying out a new plug which vibrates based on the sound around you. The list can go on and on!
Ultimately, most of these reasons boil down to one thing though. Excitement. Simply having a butt plug in while doing any number of everyday things can make you feel just a little bit naughty. You shouldn’t really be getting sexual pleasure right now, but you are, and it’s your little secret!
It’s not for everyone, and some people really don’t enjoy it, but if you’ve never tried it before you should definitely give it a go.
Wearing Butt Plugs In The Home
Every journey should start with small steps, and this one is no different. If you’ve never worn your plug outside the comfort of your bedroom, the natural first step is always to wear it inside your house.
We don’t just mean wearing it when you’re having sex though. You can keep your plug in while doing all kinds of completely normal activities such as:
- Doing laundry.
- Watching TV.
The list could go on and on, but basically anything you can do in your home is something you can do while wearing a plug.
By practising wearing it while doing these things though, you get used to how it will feel when you wear it in a public place. You can start to judge how long it will be comfortable for, when you’ll need to remove it and apply more lube, and which size plug is the most suitable to use.
Once you feel comfortable wearing it indoors for a longer period of time, you can start taking it out and about!
Wearing Butt Plugs In Public
For most people, the first adventure into the great unknown will usually be a simply trip to do some chores. Grocery shopping, walking to the gym, going for a coffee. Simple stuff.
By starting with nice and easy activities, you can again practise wearing your plug and getting used to the sensations it provides. You can also start to experience some of the “dirty” feelings from wearing a sex toy in front of other people without them even knowing!
Take Lube With You!
It’s also important to point out, that no matter what kind of lubricant you use, it will eventually dry out. On top of this, you might have to remove your plug multiple times to use the bathroom, or simply take a break.
Keeping a bottle of lube handy at all times means that if you do need to take your plug out, or put it back in, that it isn’t going to be a painful experience. Apply lube generously throughout your adventure, and make sure that the plug isn’t going to cause chafing or pain.
You should also take a bag with you, so if you do need to take the plug out, you have somewhere to put it.
Wearing Butt Plugs At Work
The natural progression is that once you’re comfortable wearing plugs in public, you’re probably gonna want to try wearing one at work. After all, what could make a boring desk job more exciting than constant sexual stimulation for the entire time!
While this is a fantasy enjoyed by many people around the world, there are a few important thing you should consider.
Firstly, is your job suitable for you to wear a butt plug while you do it? Obviously there are some pretty clear no-go areas. If you work with children at all, you shouldn’t wear a plug around them. Similarly jobs such as doctors and nurses, military personnel, and police or firefighters should probably give this one a miss.
Beyond that though, it’s largely down to your own experience and judgement. If you work in an office and spend most of your day sat down, you shouldn’t have any problems. On the other hand, if you work on a construction site and do a lot of heavy lifting, wearing a plug could make your job much more difficult or even lead to injury.
If you aren’t really sure, try to emulate the conditions of your workplace at home, and have a test run to see how comfortable it is to wear.
Wearing Butt Plugs On A Night Out
Another very common time that people like to wear butt plugs in public is on a night out.
For date night, one or both of you might want to wear a plug. Knowing your date has something in their butt can be a massive turn on, and make your date much more raunchy and exciting.
You can even try vibrating plugs, and give the remote to your date. Whenever they like, they can turn on your plug, and send waves of pleasure through your body while you try and hold yourself together.
Parties and clubs are another option for some night time fun with your plugs. Some people like to spice up boring parties, or further improve lively ones! Some plugs even have the technology to vibrate in time with the music in the room, letting the beat truly wash over you.
Taking Your Butt Plugs On Holiday
Whether it’s a relaxing cruise, or a hot weekend break, many couples don’t want to be without their favourite plugs when they head on holiday. Taking your butt plugs with you can be a lot of fun, but there are a few things you should remember.
If you’re going to be crossing the border, you should always package your butt plugs correctly. Put each one in a separate bag, and clearly label what they are. If any of your plugs use batteries, remove them if possible. Some flights only let you take on certain types of batteries, so it’s often a good idea to stick to old fashioned, classic models.
It should go without saying that if you’re going through security, any metal plugs will set them off. Most of the time it’s just easier to wait until you reach your destination before putting your plug in.
It’s easy to become embarrassed if someone needs to search your bag and you have a sex toy in there. You shouldn’t worry it though, these people have seen it all before! As long as you’re honest and answer their questions, you shouldn’t have any major problems.
Using Butt Plugs In Long Distance Relationships
A long distance relationship can really put the breaks on any couple’s sex life. Squeezing in some bedroom time here and there is okay for a while, but eventually you’re going to want to be intimate a little more often.
Thanks to the wonders of modern technology though, we now have sex toys that can work across the internet. These toys work in pairs, and react to the movements of your partner, so you can feel like you’re having sex no matter how far apart you are!
Of course, these kinds of set-ups can be quite expensive, so for something a bit more affordable, how about a butt plug? Some vibrating butt plugs can be connected to a mobile phone app, which means your partner can operate it even when you’re miles apart!
While it’s not quite as good as the real thing, controlling each other’s vibrations and stimulation can feel much more intimate than a few sexy text messages.
Can You Wear A Butt Plug While Swimming?
One of the more unusual thing some people want to try is wearing their plug while they go swimming. There can often be concerns though, particularly as to whether the plug will stay in.
As the name might suggest, the butt plug will literally plug your butt. So there’s no worries of water getting into your body. Simply wearing an appropriately sized plug will mean you can swim without any worries.
Can You Wear A Butt Plug At A Nudist Resort?
An interesting question we’ve seen in the past is whether or not plugs are suitable (or should be allowed) at nudist resorts. After all, these places are full of naked people, so surely sexy things are allowed?
Nudist beaches aren’t really “sexy” places though. These facilities are set up for people who follow naturism to practise their beliefs. Each beach or resort will have its own list of rules that you have to obey during your time there. One thing is almost always in the rules though, and it’s that “sexy” stuff is off the table.
This doesn’t just include sex toys, but having sex, or even looking at other people can be frowned upon. So if this was your one big fantasy I’m afraid it’s one that just isn’t going to come true.
Wearing Butt Plugs (Nearly) Anywhere!
We’ve given a lot of different examples of places you might want to wear your butt plug. Some, like wearing them to work, are very common fantasies. Others like swimming with a butt plug in are a bit rarer.
Whatever fantasy location you’d like to try your butt plug though, you should always be willing to give it a try! Just use your common sense, and make sure it’s an appropriate place to wear one, and you should be fine.
Who knows what sort of kinky places could be livened up with a butt plug? The cinema? School reunion? While climbing a mountain? The only limit, is your imagination!