People are always looking for ways to increase their sexual pleasure in the bedroom, and one of the activities many couples now participate in is double penetration, which involves two different orifices being stimulated either with fingers, a penis, or even a sex toy.
After all, a little creativity in the bedroom goes a long way in helping a couple improve their sexual escapades and even their relationship. It is also easier than you think to participate in double penetration, in part because there are so many ways to do it.
What Is Double Penetration?
Double penetration usually involves both the vagina and the anus being stimulated at the same time, and there are various combinations to choose from. If you have vaginal sex while inserting something in your anal area, this can be considered double penetration.
If you’re having anal sex while inserting something inside of the vagina, this is considered double penetration as well. Double penetration was once considered a very big taboo; fortunately, humans have gone beyond that and now enjoy this activity like they do many others in the bedroom.
Double penetration can also involve two men inserting their penis inside of a woman’s vagina and anus at the same time. For any type of double penetration to occur, both the vagina and the anus are usually penetrated, but they can be penetrated by a penis, sex toy, or even someone’s fingers.
When both the anus and vagina are being stimulated at the same time, the activity qualifies as double penetration. In addition, if one orifice is being stimulated with two items at the same time – for example, a penis and a sex toy – you can still call the activity double penetration, although this activity is a little less common.
This type of activity is often associated with threesomes, but it is possible for a woman to stimulate both her anus and her vagina at the same time.
You can participate in double penetration by yourself or with one or two other people, because the activity is immensely pleasurable to each and every participant, regardless of how you do it.
One of the reasons double penetration feels so good is that many people consider it the “forbidden fruit,” and when sex feels naughty, it is somehow more exciting to most people.
Whether you want two of your orifices penetrated or one orifice penetrated with two different items, double penetration is likely not something you’ll only try once.
If you like to feel adventurous in the bedroom, giving double penetration a try is something you won’t regret. You can even custom design the activity to meet your needs, guaranteeing you’ll be pleased in the end.
Should You Try Double Penetration?
If you already enjoy both vaginal sex and anal sex, you’re the perfect candidate for trying double penetration. In fact, even if you’ve never tried anal sex, but you love vaginal sex, now might be the perfect time to give anal sex a try.
The taboo and lure of double penetration is a turn on for a lot of people, and it will never disappoint as long as you make sure it is something you really want to do and you use a lot of lube and foreplay.
Double penetration is also a great sexual activity for male-female couples and even female-female couples, because strap-ons and other sex toys can be used if you wish.
The dominant-submissive relationship can also benefit from trying double penetration, as can just about any other couple who loves sex and really wants to try something new.
If you combine double penetration with other sexual fantasies, it can be the perfect complement to your time in the bedroom, and since there are so many options available when it comes to this activity, you can find new ways to participate in it each time you get started.
Whether you’re into BDSM, dom-sub activity, or you just prefer a good old-fashioned 69 position, double penetration can add to it and increase your level of satisfaction immediately, especially if you create a few new ways to do it yourself.
What Does Double Penetration Feel Like?
Many women have contributed to online reviews and testified to what double penetration feels like, and many people are surprised by their answers. Simply put, the vast majority of women truly enjoy this type of sexual activity, and most of them describe it as a very “full” feeling that they claim is very erotic.
Again, because double penetration is often considered forbidden fruit, this has caused a lot of couples to become anxious to give it a try, and very few of them have regretted it.
One important thing to remember is that before you try double penetration, you have to be completely familiar with both vaginal and anal sex. If you’re a virgin or have never tried anal sex before, starting with a double penetration is not recommended.
You should wait until you are experienced with both of these types of sex before you give double penetration a try, because otherwise it can be overwhelming for you, not to mention uncomfortable and maybe even painful.
Some women have even claimed they feel like a cupcake with cream filling while being doubly penetrated, because there are two ways for them to feel like they’re having cream injected into them.
Other women say it is the best way to have an orgasm, and that the orgasms they’ve experienced during double penetration are some of the most intense, mind-blowing orgasms they’ve ever had.
While some women find they do not like the experience, most women claim that once they got used to this type of activity, they absolutely love it.
Clearly, double penetration feels great to most of the women who have tried it, because most of them claim that while enjoying one penis is great, enjoying two of them – or a penis and a sex toy – is phenomenal.
Between the fact that it is a taboo in many cultures and the number of possibilities that exist when it comes to double penetration, it is no wonder that so many women have discovered that this type of activity is the perfect complement to everything else they enjoy in the bedroom.
Does Double Penetration Hurt?
Just like other forms of sex, double penetration can hurt if you are new to it and if you do not use enough lube. Getting used to it means you have to do things to prepare yourself both physically and mentally, but fortunately, this is much easier than you might think.
To help out, here are a few things you can keep in mind when preparing for double penetration:
First, you should mentally prepare for this type of activity. Just like regular sex acts, you have to be aroused for it to feel good, so foreplay is definitely recommended. Also, remember that you shouldn’t try double penetration unless you’ve already experienced both vaginal and anal sex and you’re comfortable with both of them.
When you’re participating in foreplay, try to tease the vagina and anus a little bit with toys or with the fingers, and this can help you loosen up a bit so that you are more aroused.
Mental preparation also includes the communications mentioned earlier. You have to know what to expect when participating in double penetration before the activity starts, so sitting down with your partner and talking about the do’s and don’ts is crucial.
Once you know what is going to happen, you can relax a little more because you’ll feel more in control, which also goes a long way in helping you become aroused.
As far as physical preparation goes, the important thing to remember is to use a lot of lube. Not just the first time you try double penetration, but every time thereafter. All of the foreplay in the world won’t help if you are considering skipping this very-important step, so always use lube from beginning to end when you’re enjoying double penetration.
In addition to these tips, going slow is also recommended, and if you use toys during the activity, remember to pay attention to the type of lube recommended by the manufacturer of those toys.
It isn’t that preparation will take you a long time, because it usually doesn’t, but both mental and physical preparation for double penetration is a must every time.
If you’ve considered that double penetration may hurt, just remember that all of these tips will help a lot so that in the end, you can participate in this type of activity without worrying about any discomfort or pain.
Types of Double Penetration
Like most other types of sexual activity, double penetration can be enjoyed by one, two, or even three people. Getting used to participating in this sex act can sometimes be a challenge, but since there are so many different possibilities when it comes to the position that you choose, it is easy to find the right position in the end.
Of course, it isn’t just the position that makes this type of sex exciting, but also the possibilities regarding what you can do while exploring different toys and other devices while having this type of sex. Below are some possibilities for you to try if you’re interested in double penetration:
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Solo - Going solo is a great suggestion if you’ve never tried double penetration before, because it allows you to explore on your own what does and doesn’t feel good to you. Once you know what you like in this area of sexual activity, you can share that with your partner so that he/she can accommodate you.
Most women start out by using a vibrator in their vagina and using their fingers or a butt plug in their anus. You can use whatever you like, of course, but using smaller toys in the beginning makes it easier to start to feel comfortable with this type of sexual activity.
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With Partner and Sex Toy - As long as you’ve communicated with your partner about the do’s and don’ts of the double penetration experience, this is a fun way to try it. There are many different possibilities available, especially once you keep in mind that double penetration always involves either the penetration of two different orifices or the penetration of one orifice with two different items.
You can let your partner penetrate you either vaginally or anally with a strap-on, another sex toy, or his penis, and you can take charge of the remaining orifice and do what you like with it. Either of you can use whatever item you like to please the other one.
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Male-Male-Female (MMF) - This is a very commonly used type of double penetration, and if you think guys are hesitant to be in bed with a woman and another man, think again. Although it isn’t for everyone, many men have no problem with this arrangement, so you can easily enjoy one man’s penis in your vagina while another man’s penis is in your anal area.
There are also lots of different positions that make this type of activity super simple, and you can even create a few new positions of your own if you like. Either way, this is one type of sexual escapade you are not likely to forget anytime soon.
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Female-Male-Female (FMF) - Being in bed with two women is perhaps most men’s biggest fantasy, and if you couple this fantasy with a little double penetration action, it is easy to understand why this arrangement is so popular. There are many different possibilities for this type of activity, including one woman using a strap-on or other sex toy in the other female while the man inserts his penis into one of them.
If you decide to add some finger action instead of a toy, the trio might be a little less intimidating for newbies, but the important thing to remember is that the two female-one male arrangement makes for some very interesting activity.
How to Prepare for Double Penetration
Like most types of sexual activity, preparation is the key to enjoying successful double penetration. As with anal and other types of sex, a full discussion needs to happen so that boundaries and rules are set for each person in the group.
After all, the last thing you want to do is get started having sex and end up with a surprise on your hands – especially if that surprise is not something you’re interested in doing.
If you’re participating in a group of two or three people, each person has to be prepared for what they are expected – and not expected – to do. No one, of course, should be talked into doing something considered unpleasant.
So talking to one another in great detail about what you do or don’t want to do is crucial. There should be no question of what is expected of each member once the conversation has ended.
There are two other areas that are extremely important to know before double penetration is begun: foreplay and choice of lube. Especially if you’ve never tried double penetration before, foreplay can go a long way in getting you into the mood.
Both mental and physical preparation is important for any type of anal sex, including double penetration, and foreplay is the perfect way to get everyone aroused and ready for what lies ahead.
If you intend to use toys during your escapade, it is important that you become familiar with those toys ahead of time. You shouldn’t wait until the activity itself to introduce yourself to a certain toy. If you use anal beads, for example, you may want to use those beads during sex sometime before you participate in double penetration.
If you intend to use a strap-on, hold it in your hands and explore it a little before getting started, because it can make things a little more uncomfortable and even awkward to see those toys only once you’ve started the activity.
This is also where good communication comes in, because in the best-case scenario, everybody will know what is expected of them beforehand and which toys will be used so that there are no surprises at inopportune times.
In addition to the right amount of foreplay, a lot of lube must be used, and this rule applies even if you’re used to double penetration and other types of sex.
Keep in mind that every time you participate in any type of anal sex play, a lot of lube is a must because without it, the sex can be uncomfortable and even painful.
It doesn’t matter which type of lube you use, unless the toys you’re using require a specific type, because the important thing to remember is that you must use lube every single time. There is simply no getting around this.
When preparing for double penetration, it is also important to keep in mind that you should never rush into it, because it is a unique activity that a lot of people have never tried before. There are a lot of options when it comes to the sexual positions you can use.
So it is good to try different ones and decide for yourselves which one is best. Most importantly, you shouldn’t be discouraged if you can’t quite make it work the first time around, because double penetration requires some patience and flexibility.
Lubrication
As already mentioned, lubricants have to be used when you’re interested in trying out double penetration. There are numerous types of lube, but the two most commonly used ones are the water-based and the silicone-based types. Each has its own advantages, so in the end, it will be up to you to decide which one you like best.
Water-based lube is so thin that it is possible you may not feel it after it is applied, but rest assured knowing that it is there. Water-based lube absorbs very quickly, which means you’ll likely have to reapply it at least once or twice while having sex.
The good thing about this type of lube absorbing so quickly is that it is easy to wash off of bedclothes and sheets. This is also the reason why using water-based lube doesn’t feel as messy as many other types of lube. It is also why you don’t have to worry about the lube staining anything or causing any permanent damage.
Silicone-based lube is thicker than the water-based type and usually has a gel-like consistency. It is a little more challenging to get off of sheets and clothing, but because it is so thick, you usually don’t have to reapply it as often as you do the water-based lube.
Many sex toys require that you use silicone-based lube, but you should always check the packaging on your sex toy to make sure you don’t purchase the wrong type of lube. Silicone-based lube also lasts a very long time.
Many people use all-natural lubricants, such as coconut oil and other oils, and there are even oil-based and hybrid lubes for you to choose from. Unless something on the packaging tells you that you shouldn’t, you should be able to use any type of lube for your double penetration activity.
The important thing, of course, is to use a lot of lube continuously throughout the activity, and always make sure you purchase that lube from a reputable store and an even more-reputable manufacturer.
How to Do Double Penetration/Best Positions for Double Penetration
Keep in mind that double penetration always involves two orifices being penetrated at the same time or one orifice being penetrated by two different objects. Also, keep in mind that these objects can include fingers, butt plugs, dildos, and other sex toys, and of course, a penis.
Believe it or not, there are a dozen or so different possibilities when it comes to sexual positions for double penetration enjoyment, and below are just a few of them.
- Cowgirl position: a very common position, this one involves a woman getting on top and mounting one man like she normally would while the other man gets behind her and inserts his penis into the woman’s anus. You can also reverse this position and have the man lying down, the woman lying down on top of him face-up so that both her vagina and her anus can be penetrated.
- Doggie style: with this one, the woman gets on all fours and can enjoy being penetrated in her anus by two men or have one man take care of her anus and the other reach down to stimulate her genitals. For extra kinkiness, you can have the woman give a third man a blow job.
- Double missionary: the woman will lay on her back and lift her legs up high so that one man can get on top of her and enter her vagina while the other man enters her anus.
- King position: two men lay down and face one another; their penises may touch. The woman crouches on top of them so that one penis can enter her anus and the other can enter her vagina.
- The sandwich pose: two men lie down and get on either side of the woman, and one penis goes into her vagina while the other one goes into her anus.
- Full exposure: the woman and one man lay on their backs with their genitals touching, while the man enters her anus; then, the second man climbs on top of her and enters her vagina.
- The amazon: this is a super-kinky position and starts with a man lying on his back and spreading his legs out wide. The woman, standing, bends over him and gets on top of him, while another man enters her anally from behind.
There are many more positions for double penetration, of course, and not all of them have to consist of penetration with a penis. In fact, women can pleasure themselves either anally or vaginally while someone else pleasures the other orifice, and many times this pleasuring is done with fingers or even a sex toy.
You can have a couple adopt the 69 position and the third person lie in back of one of them to enjoy more activity, or you can even pleasure yourself from both ends.
Sexual positions for twosomes or threesomes interested in double penetration can easily be found online, and most of the websites featuring this activity will have dozens of those positions for you to choose from.
If you want to try something a little more unique and kinkier, you can try inserting two penises, or a penis and a dildo, into the woman’s mouth.
As you can see, there is no end to the possibilities when it comes to enjoying double penetration, especially since you can easily think up additional positions and possibilities with little effort on your part.
Sex Toys for Double Penetration/Choosing the Right Dildo for Double Penetration
As you can imagine, sex toys used for double penetration vary quite a bit, so whatever kinkiness you enjoy taking part in, it is easy to find a sex toy to satisfy your needs. In fact, there are even sex toys and dildos made specifically for double penetration, and they are available in a variety of designs, shapes, sizes, and even colors. These include the following:
- Dual vibrators - These are made with two dildos and, therefore, can easily penetrate an anus and vagina for double the fun in bed. They are usually made of body-safe silicone and usually come in various speeds.
- Double-sided dildos - These have a penis shape on either end. This is a very flexible toy that is usually quite long – often more than 17 inches in length – to allow the user to enjoy a lot of very deep thrusting action.
- Two-in-one cock ring and dildo - This is usually a bendable toy so that you enjoy the ultimate in comfort, and both the dildo and the C-ring can be used simultaneously. It also usually comes in an eye-catching, bright color.
- Crystal glass beads - Glass is nonporous and, therefore, a great material to use for sex toys. It often has beads on one end and a larger, single bead on the other end. It is great for stimulation of the prostate and for inserting into either the vagina or the anus.
- Dual stimulators - These are made with both a dildo and anal beads. You can use this type of toy in the anus and vagina at the same time, or insert both sections into the anus for extra fun.
- Strapless strap-on dildos - These are especially useful for pegging activity. It is curved for extra sensation and also to help the dildo remain inside of you, and it works wonders when G-spot or prostate stimulation is what you’re after.
If you do your research online or shop in a brick-and-mortar sex toy shop, you’ll likely be amazed at the variety of sex toys that is available for double penetration.
There are dildos made with a clitoral stimulator on the other end, combination C-ring and anal bead stimulators, strap-ons that consist of two penises each facing a different direction, vibrators made with two fake penises on one end and anal beads on the other, toys that have either a fake penis or anal beads on one end and a place to insert a vibrating egg in the other, and many types of strap-ons of various sizes, materials, and shapes.
The best part is, none of these double penetration sex toys are very expensive, so even if you choose to purchase more than one of them, you can do so without breaking the bank.
One thing is certain – when you go to buy dildos specifically made for double penetration, you will never run out of choices and you will never have to pay a lot to get the one you want in the end.
Double penetration is an activity that is not likely to end anytime soon, and people who are interested in it will find plenty of suggestions to make it a very satisfying experience, especially if they start with the Internet. Making sure it is comfortable and enjoyable is an easy thing to do, and it can greatly complement the rest of the acts included in your sexual repertoire.